This post is in response to the Just Write Campaign that’s going on over at Beauty For Ashes. This daily writing exercise focuses on a new word, just one word, that is pulled from a jar of words, written on paper, each day. This wonderfully talented, unusually authentic, hysterically clever, Mary Katherine Tyson is the woman whom I claimed as family almost immediately after meeting her, through her blog; because, well, I have always wanted a brave little sistah, just like MK, to call my very own, so I do. I call her my own, whether she likes it or not. I’ve received more than just adopting the little sister that I’ve always wanted, though. I’ve received friendship from a woman whom I admire; and, as an added bonus, she’s quirky enough to believe I’m normal, just as normal as she.
You should hop over, and introduce yourself to MK and while you’re there, Just Write.
The Word Is Joy. Wurd!
MK,
I apologize in advance. This is going to be long.
It’s those echoes…when God is speaking, and His message is heard echoing, among His people. I’ve been hearing those echoes lately, and I believe it warrants further exploration, with courageous transparency, especially if I – I mean, if one of your sisters in Christ who shall remain nameless – has a conviction to allow the Holy Spirit to change her, in the same way she received a new understanding about her relationship with God.
So here goes…
Because of a book we’re reading, my son and I have been exploring this topic of joy and other Godly characteristics that are seemingly elusive, relative to those who are involved in ministry (Really, that word includes all of Christ’s followers, as we should all be ministering to each other and to not-yet-Believers).
So, among other revelations that came from our discussion we concluded that
- From our experience we don’t really understand this deep and lasting joy, and because we don’t really know what it means to abide with joy, regardless of our circumstances; we set our sights on happiness, instead. We settle for the pursuit of happiness, and we do what we think will create it.
- Even after all the high-fives, the pursuit and acquisition of promotions, platforms, publications, and pop-culture ministry we’re disillusioned by the temporary nature of happy. We’ve exhausted ourselves in the pursuit of happiness, and we still don’t feel good about ourselves, so we settle again.
- This time, we settle for pseudo-satisfaction and comfort. We try to be kind to ourselves, but we don’t really know how. We give it a go in insecure attempts at assurances that we didn’t fail as badly as whomever it is we compare ourselves to.
(At this point, we almost decided that we don’t really understand happiness, either.)
We kinda, sorta, maybe caught the tiniest glimpse of what lies between a bunch of us Christian ministry folks, who may not have a firm grasp on the meaning of joy, and the experience of an abiding joy.
Here is the list of phrases that we used to describe our understanding of the nature of joy:
- Exists as a result of having received love, learning to love, and then, loving when no one is being/feeling lovable.
- A result of understanding grace, experiencing grace, and extending grace.
- Increases during trying and threatening circumstances.
- Exists as a result of understanding purpose.
- Endures through the lonely seasons of life, but is incapable of the belief that there are mundane seasons of life.
- Is fueled by healthy relationships, and understands that an eternal perspective is essential to health. IE:GodPeople, PeoplePeople, PeoplePlanet.
- Is present and occupies the same time/space with grief/mourning.
- Is not limited or intimidated by the authority of God.
- Is not limited or intimidated by human weaknesses, strengths, or lack of cooperation.
- Does not occupy the same time/space with fear or with evil.
And then we saw.
The same words.
The ones that describe the nature of joy
are
the ones that describe the nature of God.
Doesn’t it always come back to this?
We know Him.
But, in our relationship with Him, we settle for happy and comfortable.
We are not satisfied. We have no abiding joy.
We need to know Him more.
Seek ye first…
Love, Laurie















